L’Tomay is an educator, social worker, substance abuse counselor, consultant, coach, and survivor of child sexual abuse.
L’Tomay first disclosed her abuse in a restorative justice circle for healing. She was nervous at first since her own family members didn’t believe her. She felt validated in the circle for the first time in her life since she always looked at herself as if she was missing something, and at times, not feeling like she fit in.